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Married and Still dating…how many times do you meet a man or woman that has that extra baggage you weren’t quite aware of in the beginning? Too often than not…. In this day in age, there are a lot of people out here still married and nowhere near divorced, while entertaining CONVERSATIONS they ought not. #join us Sunday for more on this conversation!
Make-up sex. Break up sex. Mercy sex. Drive by sex. It’s easy sex. I just gotta have some sex. It’s better than nothing sex. Friends with benefits sex. Maybe this time it will be different sex.
Sound familiar?
These are just a few of the countless reasons why we might fall into bed with an Ex-lover. Unless a miracle has occurred, and your Ex has suddenly become the person you always wanted them to be, having sex with your Ex is a mistake.
Why?
As soon as you get close enough to smell them, your brain chemistry is triggered, memories come flooding back and you begin to re-attach.
And for women, it’s even worse because everyone knows that when you have sex with an Ex, your brain releases bonding hormones that could cause you to fall head over heels all over again.
Don’t do it. Reconsider.
If these aren’t enough good reasons not to do it, here’s the most important one: having sex with your Ex reconnects you to them and it may prevent you from being ready for the person you are meant to be with.
Some may say that having random, casual sex with your Ex (or anyone else) sends a message to the Universe that you don’t really believe or trust that your partner is on the way.
Think of it this way, if you had a 100% guarantee that your ‘soulmate’ was arriving in 72 hours would you be having casual sex with someone else?
Thank GOD Its FINALLY here…I’m sure some of you had a more than productive week along with the Conversation Piece.
Today as I was getting ready for work, I thought I am soooo glad the weekend is finally here! I’m going to let my hair down FOR REAL and get ALL the WAY LIVE! What are your plans for the weekend? #sound off Shout out to our girl @thekabosh as she celebrates her Birthday on Saturday! #http://youtu.be/cIYtBSqkbmw
Passion is a very strong feeling about a person or thing. It’s an intense emotion compelling feeling, enthusiasm, or desire for something. …
I was having a conversation last night with a friend talking about passion and the lack thereof. There are so many people in relationships that are just going through the motions. Living day to day with no excitement and passion for their mate. Lackluster folk slay me!
I feel sorry for people who have “lived” their lives and have never felt passionate about a job or another person. It’s by far one of the greatest feelings in the world.
How many people do you know that clock in and out at work like robots…going through the motions? Staying at mundane jobs while fantasizing about that dream job in corporate America or that job in New York City. I can admit to that. Let’s stop complaining and go after what we are passionate about.
If we haven’t learned anything about the recent earthquake that hit almost the whole east coast, let’s live life to the fullest. Life is too short. Let’s quit wasting time with douche bags just to say we have a man. For God’s sake, let’s get rid of that job that we hate so much. I know its not that easy but let’s make moves while we can.
Moral of the story: Only do things that we are passionate about and that make us burst with joy and excitement
I’m sure there are things we wanted to accomplish but couldn’t. Things we wanted to say, but didn’t.
Everyone thinks they should be doing something better, or faster, or easier in some way. Instead of Judging ourselves and holding ourselves to standards that someone else made up..or standards that may not even make sense for our current situation (whether it be business or personal)…. always try to remain in the present. Now is all that matters.
You’ve agreed to go out with someone for the first time after an introduction by some friends. Your vibing and having a great time on the date. After the formalities, you start getting into the nitty griddy when you then find out that he/she is married and has a kid BUT they’re going through a divorce. You continue to get the story as to whether or not they are still living together, etc. He/She assures you that they aren’t and they haven’t been for quite some time. They’re barely on speaking terms. The date continues and pretty much ends on a good note. He/She asks if you guys can hang out again.
Does knowing this person is still married immediately deter you from continuing to get to know this person?
Do you feel deceived that you didn’t know he/she was married and going through a divorce before you agreed to the date?
Do you agree to see this person again or do you take a pass until they are fully single?
Is it wrong for individuals that are married to perouse the dating scene?
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